Why Are You Not Serving God?

Lately, I’ve had this thought on my mind— to ask people I know who aren’t saved a simple but deep question: "Why are you not serving God?"

Many of these people grew up in Christian homes. They heard the same Bible stories I did, went to Sunday school, maybe even memorized Scripture. They know about God. Yet for some reason, they’ve decided they don’t want Him in their lives.

Why?
What turned them off?

I’ve often wondered if it’s because of what they saw rather than what they heard. 

I think many people have witnessed compromise in their homes—homes that called themselves Christian, but didn’t truly reflect Christ.

The Power of Example

Children watch more than they listen. They notice when their parents act one way around other believers and another way behind closed doors. That kind of inconsistency plants confusion deep in their hearts. It sends the message that Christianity is just a performance, something you put on for others instead of a way of life shaped by love for Jesus.

In many "Christian homes", children are taught all the rules—all the do’s and don’ts—but not the relationship. They’re told to obey but not taught how to fall in love with Jesus first.

But true obedience doesn’t come from fear or pressure; it flows from a heart that knows and loves Jesus. When we truly love Him, we want to obey Him—out of devotion.

Rules can’t change hearts, but love can.

Teaching Relationship Over Rules

Maybe if more homes focused on helping their children build a personal relationship with God—encouraging them to seek answers in the Bible for themselves and to talk to God openly—fewer hearts would turn away later in life.

Parents can’t live their children’s faith for them, but they can model a life of love, humility, and repentance. Children need to see that faith is real even when life is messy—that loving Jesus isn’t about being perfect, but about depending on Him daily.

When all we teach is “be good” or “obey the rules,” we raise moral children but not necessarily spiritual ones. What we need are young people whose hearts burn for the Lord—who know Him deeply and personally.

Because to truly know God is to love God. And once you know Him, you’ll want to obey Him.

Don’t Let Others’ Failures Keep You From God

Now, maybe you did see compromise in your family. Maybe your parents said one thing and lived another. Maybe you were hurt by the hypocrisy you saw in the name of faith. But that doesn’t mean you should throw everything they taught you away.

It doesn’t mean you stop believing in God, or that everything they showed you was false. Sometimes people fail—but God never does.

Don’t let the failures of others cause you to turn away from the One who has never failed you. People can misrepresent God, but He is still holy, still merciful, still loving, still faithful. The actions of others don’t change who He is.

Instead of walking away, let that disappointment drive you to seek God for yourself.

Seek Jesus for Yourself

Open His Word. Ask Him to reveal who He truly is. Because when you see Him clearly—not through the lens of someone else’s mistakes, but through His truth—your faith becomes real, strong, and personal.

He wants to know you. He wants to heal the wounds that religion or hypocrisy may have caused. He wants to show you His heart, His goodness, and His grace.

So please, seek Jesus for yourself.

“And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.” — Jeremiah 29:13

Start talking to Him. Read His Word. Spend time in His presence. Build your own relationship with the Lord.

You won’t regret it.

Because once you truly meet Him—once you know Him—you’ll never want to say no again. 

Disclaimer: I do want to add that some people grew up in truly godly homes—homes where Christ was honored and no compromise was seen—yet they still turned away from God. That’s something I find deeply puzzling.

No matter what reasons people give for not serving God, none of them really hold weight. I may not understand their choices, but my heart’s prayer is that they would come to truly know Him and remain faithful to Him for the rest of their lives.

Too long? Read the summary of this post below ⬇️ 

Many people who grew up in Christian homes know about God but choose not to serve Him. Often, the reason isn’t what they heard—but what they saw. They witnessed hypocrisy or compromise in homes that called themselves Christian, and it planted confusion and distrust.

True faith can’t be built on rules alone—it must come from a personal relationship with Jesus. Parents should model genuine love, humility, and repentance so children see faith lived out, not just preached.

Even if you’ve been hurt or disappointed by others’ failures, don’t let that keep you from God. People may misrepresent Him, but He never fails. Seek Him for yourself through His Word and prayer. 

My New Christmas Album: It Was Away in a Manger

🎄Hi friends! I’m so excited to tell you about my brand-new Christmas album called It Was Away in a Manger. It came out on October 31st, 2025, and I’ve been waiting to share it with you!

This album is really special to me because all the songs are original — my dad wrote them himself! They’re not the same old Christmas songs you’ve heard before. Each one has its own story, melody, and feeling that came straight from my heart.

Songs I Love Most

One of my favorite songs on the album is the title track, “It Was Away in a Manger.” It’s a soft and sweet song that reminds me of peaceful nights and the quiet magic of Christmas.

Another one I really love is “Joy to the World.” Even though it has the same name as the classic carol, this one’s totally new — it’s full of happiness and light, and it always makes me smile when I sing it.

Why I Made This Album

When we started writing these songs, we wanted to make music that felt warm and comforting — like sitting by the fire, watching snow fall, or being with the people you love. We hope these songs make you feel that way too.

You can listen to River and Me Ministries It Was Away in a Manger on all the music apps — and I really hope it becomes part of your Christmas season.

Thanks for listening and for sharing this special time with me. ❤️

Listen to the full album

A New Album, a new music video and what's new with River and Me Ministries

✨ Hi everyone!

I hope this finds you well and blessed. It’s been such a full and beautiful season, and I wanted to take a moment to share what’s been happening lately — and to thank you for all your love, prayers, and encouragement along the way. 💛

🎶 A Big Milestone: My New Album Release!

Last month was especially exciting because… I released my music album!

It’s part of River and Me Ministries Music. Each track carries a piece of my heart — stories and melodies that have come 

from moments of joy, waiting, and deep faith.

Every song is a reflection of God’s faithfulness, peace, and love through life’s ups and downs. From quiet prayers whispered in the dark to joyful praise for His goodness, my hope is that these songs remind you that God is always near and always working for our good.

You can listen to the album on our ministry platforms.

I’d love to hear which song speaks to you most. 💿✨

🎥 Music Video & Creative Projects

I also had the joy of creating a music video for one of the songs I wrote and sang! It’s been such a fun and faith-filled experience — from writing the lyrics and recording vocals, to seeing the visuals come alive. Watching it reach hearts and encourage others has been such a blessing.

If you haven’t seen it yet, it’s available on our My YouTube Channel

🌊 What’s New with River and Me Ministries

The YouTube channel has been growing and changing a lot lately! 

Along with music, we’re creating:

• 🎭 Silly puppet videos that share uplifting messages in fun ways

• 🎨 Animations that tell Bible stories and simple truths of faith

• 🎵 Original songs that glorify God and bring joy to families

It’s been wonderful to see how creativity can point hearts back to Him. If you haven’t yet, please consider subscribing — your support helps us reach more people with encouragement, light, and laughter.

💌 Thank You from My Heart

Thank you all for supporting me, praying for me, and walking beside me in this journey. Whether you’ve shared a kind word, watched a video, or simply prayed — it means more than I can ever express.

I’m so grateful for each one of you and for the way 

God connects us through His love.

With love and blessings,
Bre 💖

Studying the Bible through summaries

Lately, my mom and I have started reading summaries of each chapter in the Bible, and we’re currently in Genesis. It’s amazing how much more we’re getting out of God’s Word by doing it this way. The summaries help us see the bigger picture of what’s happening in each chapter and how everything fits together.

We’ve read through the Bible before and always enjoyed it, but this approach has been different—it’s helping us understand more deeply. Instead of just reading the text, we’re slowing down and letting it sink in. The summaries break each chapter down in a way that makes it easier to follow and remember what’s going on.

It’s been such a refreshing way to study and grow, and I’m so thankful for the new insights God keeps showing us through His Word.

Growing as a Christian takes personal effort

There are so many people who can’t 

seem to grow in their home church.

And truth be told, a lot of churches stop growing—so naturally, the people in them do too.

But when you stop growing, you start slipping away.

Here’s the truth: your growth was never meant to depend solely on your church.

The Bible says, “Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15, KJV)

Your pastor and your church are meant to help you grow, but they aren’t supposed to be your only source. Sunday mornings and Wednesday nights aren’t enough to sustain your spiritual life. That’s why so many people become churchgoers rather than true followers of Christ—because growth takes personal effort.

You have to make Jesus your priority—above everything else. He must come first before anything and anyone.

So start seeking Him daily:

• Pray when you wake up.

• Pray throughout your day.

• Pray before you go to bed.

And don’t forget to study your Bible on your own.

Remember, there are false teachers out there. If you’re not rooted in God’s Word, you won’t be able to tell when something is being preached from the flesh instead of from the truth.

Spiritual growth isn’t about church attendance—it’s about personal relationship.

It’s about letting Jesus lead you, teach you, and transform you from the inside out.

God Is Waking Up Our Nation

Sometimes it feels like the world is upside down. Darkness is loud. Lies are celebrated. And standing for truth can feel lonely. There are moments when I think, am I the only one who sees it? Am I the only one holding on to God’s Word?

But then—I look around. I see people rising up. I see voices speaking truth with courage. I see God stirring hearts. And I’m reminded: I am not alone, and neither are you.

God Is Still on the Throne

No matter what is happening around us, no matter what headlines shout or leaders declare, God has not stepped off His throne. He rules and reigns in righteousness. His plans will stand. “The LORD hath prepared his throne in the heavens; and his kingdom ruleth over all” (Psalm 103:19, KJB).

When the world seems chaotic, we can take comfort in knowing that nothing surprises Him. He is sovereign, He is faithful, and He will have His way.

A Great Awakening

Across this nation, people are waking up. The lies of the enemy are being exposed. Hearts are hungry for truth again. Families are standing firm in faith. Churches are crying out in prayer. The Holy Spirit is moving, and His light is shining brighter than the darkness.

It's about God calling His people back to Himself. It’s about repentance, revival, and returning to the only foundation that cannot be shaken: Jesus Christ.

We Are Not Alone

The enemy loves to whisper, “You’re the only one left. You’re standing alone.” But that’s a lie. Just like Elijah discovered when he thought he was the last prophet of God (1 Kings 19), the Lord has preserved many who will not bow to Baal. Today, too, there are countless believers across this land who are standing strong.

Every time we lift our voices in praise, every time we share truth, every time we shine light in dark places—we are part of God’s great work in this generation.

Praise God

So let’s not lose heart. God is moving. He is shaking what can be shaken so that only what is eternal will remain. He is waking up His people. He is waking up our nation. And He will finish what He started.

Let’s lift our eyes to Him and declare with confidence: Praise God—He is still on the throne!

My mini prayer binder

I just wanted to show you my mini prayer binder that I got set up a couple days ago. 

I have sections in it for...

• Repeated Prayers
• Answered Prayers
• Prayer Request 
• Daily Prayers
• Prayer List

Repeated prayers is the section where I pray these things over and over. I claim them in Jesus' name.

Answered Prayers is a section where I move prayer requests to when God answers.

The Daily Prayers section is for me to write prayers daily in.

A prayer list is a list of people to pray for.

I love my mini prayer binder SO much!

I bought the binder and the filler paper from amazon. It's nice to have beside my Bible.